Are you searching for your one true love? Are you beginning to wonder if “soul mates” actually exist? If so, don’t worry. You are in good company. Quality relationships that can withstand the test of time can be few and far between, whether you are searching for strong friendships or romantic encounters. Many people believe that there is only one true soul mate while others believe that there can be several to choose from. The important thing to remember is to never give up. Here are three different schools of thought that many people try to implement into their daily search for true love.
Visualize every Detail of your Ideal Match
This is more than just what the person should look like. What does he do for a living? How tall is he? What color are his eyes? Is he a “dog person” or a “cat person”? What does he like to do in his spare time? Is he quiet or gregarious? What type of music does he like to listen to? Is he clean-shaven, or does he have a goatee and mustache? How will you meet him? Is he strong and confident? Or is he a “go with the flow” type of guy? What does his voice sound like? Does he wear cologne? If so, what does he smell like? Imagine every minute detail possible to help draw a mental picture of your perfect partner. By creatively crafting a highly detailed mental image, you will be far more likely to finally recognize your soul mate when you finally do meet him.
Be the Kind of Person that would Attract your Ideal Match
Although most people would say that changing yourself in order to attract potential soul mates is a bad idea, there is nothing wrong with focusing on those qualities that you already possess which would tend to attract this type person. Enhancing these characteristics and making them more obvious in order to entice these potential romantic relationships is always a clever idea. What type of woman would your perfect mate be attracted to? Does she have long hair or short? What type of perfume does she wear? Does your perfect mate prefer the bowling alley to the opera? If you are spending time searching for your one true love in the wrong locations, then you may be in for a very long wait.
Open your Mind to All Possibilities
Then there are those who believe that love can be found in nearly any type of physical package. After all, beauty always eventually fades. All too often, many of us focus mainly on the exterior. If the man of our dreams also happens to have a great personality and a kind heart, then we sometimes just consider this a nice little bonus. Consider reversing this thought process. Look for the inner qualities that you will admire for years to come. Relationships built on physical beauty and lust very often burn out quickly. True soul mates are built on a foundation of like sensibilities, attitudes, and lifelong goals. Open your mind to all possibilities, and your heart will follow.